family | home




LeGrande at six months.
At two years.
With Mom.


Four arrows in the quiver.
LeAnne, Suzanne, LeGrande and Glen.

With Dad.
With beloved wife, Cyntia, on wedding day.


Four generations of Ahlers.
Granddad, Dad, LeGrande and Jacob.



Four children left behind.
Jacob, Brita, Hanna and Luke.




October 4, 2000

Dear Children,

This was the hardest few days of our lives, and with every ones' cooperation and support we all pulled together as a family to do what we could for Cynthia and the children.

We will all remember Le Grande for the rest of our lives and what he ment to each and every one of us. The void he left will never be filled!

But we must overcome our grief, bounce back, and find ways that we can help Cynthia and the children in the future, thereby showing Le Grande how much we love and miss him, and that he will never be forgotten by any one of us, and that we will all meet him again in heaven!

With all our love,
Mom and Dad (mama and papa)



The Bread Winners Foundation

Information on how you can support this and other families who have suffered the untimely loss of a "bread winner."


We Remember

Family members share memories of LeGrande:

Uncle William
Glen
Tara
Cousin William

A photo of Hanna, Brita and Jacob




A Message From Heaven

(To my brothers and sisters)

Perhaps you aren't ready yet

to have to say good bye...

Perhaps you've thought of things

you wish you said -- well, so have I.

For one thing, I'd have told you

not to worry about me...

I'm with the Lord in heaven now--

you knew that's where I'd be.

I'm sorry that you're feeling sad,

for I'm so happy now.

I've asked the Lord to ease the hurt

and comfort you some how.

It's hard at the beginning

but I know you'll make it through...

I hope it helps to know

that I'll be waiting here for you.

I love you,

Le Grande   <><


top